Autumn Attempt

Finding a sugar daddy isn't as easy as I had hoped, but I've been trying again lately now that I have plenty of free time on my hands.

I tried a new sugar daddy website and have communicated with several prospects. Most fell through, but I've actually met a few with whom a beneficial relationship might work. I'll write more as our stories fall into place.

Tag... I'm it!

My 6 word memoir: Intelligence, Aggressive, Confidence, Poise, Sassy, Memorable

Thanks to Academic Hooker for tagging me.

I tag Tiffany, Ally, Dater Xtina, Having My Cake, and So@24

Good Luck!

THE RULES

• Write your own six word memoir
  


• Post it on your blog and include a visual illustration if you’d like


• Link to the person that tagged you in your post.
  


• Tag five more blogs with links


• And don’t forget to leave a comment on the tagged blogs with an invitation to play.

Break Time

Though I haven't been searching for long, I think it's time to take a break. Everyone, including myself, is busy. It's cancellation after cancellation, and that's more exhausting than anything else.

I didn't meet the leprechaun yet. I'm not when/if we ever will. I'm not interested in pursuing anyone else at the moment.

And to be perfectly honest, I bought an amazing dress for an unbelievable bargain price today.

I'm content for a while now.

The Luck of the Irish

I found the Leprechaun's ad intriguing, but I hesistated to reply because he seemed like he was more interested in a NSA relationship rather than a sugar-relationship. Direct quote "Ask for less and you shall receive more."

Please...

I'm going to ask for what I want. If I don't get it, then I'll keep trying.

I sent him a message anyways. He can check out my profile and read exactly what I'm looking for. If he doesn't like what he reads, then he doesn't have to respond.

This is obviously how my fairytale world of sugar-relationships would work, but reality is never ideal.

After I received a reply from him, I knew right away that he took one look at my picture and responded to that alone. Ok fine, I don't mind being attractive ;)

We finally agreed to meet next week since he will be in town, and I told him over email that I'd like to lay out the arrangement ahead of time. That way our first meeting can be about getting to know each other and figuring out if there's chemistry... or really just any likelihood of a successful sugar-relationship.

So I told him exactly what I want. We'll see if he agrees or would like to meet first and then agree.

Patience

Flexible had to cancel plans at the last minute and travel somewhere. I really didn't think much of it as I have been corresponding with plenty of other potential daddies.

What I am finding with this whole process is that the men ultimately are too unattractive no matter what the offer or they're too unavailable to even see if there is mutual chemistry.

It looks like I'm going to have to be extremely patient. Hopefully it will be $worth$ the wait.

My first Don't in searching for sugar

DON'T use someone else's computer to search for a sugar daddy.

If you do, make sure to erase the internet history and any clipboard cut&pastes.

Close call today...

Seeking Flexible

Tomorrow I'm meeting a man whose ad I responded to on craigslist a while ago. He told me he would get back to me by last Tuesday. He didn't, and I had already written him off.

Then today I get an email saying his trip was longer than expected and he's back in town. We sent a couple emails back and forth today and plan to meet for drinks tomorrow evening.

Though this wouldn't be an ideal Sugar Daddy relationship since his ad was more interested in spoiling someone with fine dining and nights out when he is physically in town, I figured I would check him out anyways. As long as the night out is paid for, it might be fun to have normal dates.

daddymac is macked out

So I met daddymac at the Four Seasons. He looked like his pictures, acceptable to f*ck for sugar. I must say in person that he was dissapointing. The charisma from his emails and phone chat was absent.

I think the night really went sour close to the beginning when he told me about his past arrangement right off the bat. It wasn't a sugar relationship at all. He got involved with an intern at work and occasionally bought her things. They had a "fantastic 9 months together", but he didn't want to get married since he already had a wife at home.

That's all fine and dandy, I don't want to get married either. But I was getting the impression that he still wanted some form of "relationship" that didn't involve supporting my luxuries. In fact, he point blank said he hated that when I asked him about his wife.

His wife basically lives the life of a sugar baby. She puts out when he wants, and spends money to her heart's content... and he HATES that.

Now why would someone be on a website for a sugar daddy-baby relationship and hate supporting the luxuries that the baby desires. That's the whole freaking point!!

We didn't chat for long. I knew we didn't click, but he left it up to me to decide. So I did what any sugar baby in my position would do. I made a proposition that he could absolutely refuse, and in the off-chance he would take it... well then, he's a sugar daddy.

"I have basic needs such as food and shelter just like anyone else.
I love to work out, but I'm losing motivation. This can be fixed with a trainer.
I love designer labels for clothing and accessories.
When I look good I feel good.
When I look good, you look good.

If you are willing to support the aforementioned with $5000 monthly plus some should something ever come up, we can settle that topic and plan our next get-together so we can get to know each other better as people and lovers."

daddymac did not appreciate my proposal. I think he should switch his profile from seeking arrangement to seeking a pseudo-girlfriend who might actually like him for something other than money.

I mean come on. Don't flaunt your money and advertise funding only to tell me that your wife living an indulgent lifestyle pisses you off and you want someone for a deep connection.

Wrong site buddy. Wrong freakin site. I want your money and so does every other sugar baby.

Seeking an Arrangment

It's only obvious I would try the website called seekingarrangement.com since that is exactly what I want.

I didn't have my profile up for very long when I started getting emails from men in the area. Some seemed cute. Others were just plain ugly. I'm sorry, but it's true. I know many would argue that you can't pick and choose your sugar daddy, but I know that I can.

The reason being that I have a lot of confidence and don't really *need* a sugar daddy to get what I want. My parents will eventually buy everything for me, but I'm tired of the fight I have to put up to get it. I'd rather have it right now.

When daddymac emailed me, I thought that maybe he could be the one. He's incredibly rich, very busy and willing to provide me with "the funding to look good, clothing and spa."

I hadn't factored in spa treatments, but I like the way he thinks.

So I'm getting ready to meet him right now at the Four Seasons. I'm very nervous as to how the night will go, but I think I've got myself covered. If he tries to get me to put out, I will bust out my laptop and show him the Gucci bag I want. If he doesn't buy it for me, I'll leave.

Now that's my kind of arrangement. Let's see if it happens.

Wish me luck!

The Search: craigslist

Since I learned about sugar relationships from craigslist, it was only natural that I would start my search on that site.

When I posted for sugar, I would get a few responses before my post got flagged and removed. It was annoying and not helping me achieve my goal. I had to be patient and wait for potential sugar daddies to post. It seemed like everything would finally pay off when I responded to ComputerGeek's ad.

We exchanged pictures and told each other our stories and interests. We met later that week for coffee at Starbucks.

He was cute when I saw him. I found it very funny that he insisted on paying for my latte. I hope he knew I would require a lot more than that.

We talked, got to know each other a bit more and decided that we liked each other enough to pursue something.

Unfortunately we have yet to consummate our "relationship." ComputerGeek wants to come over my place, which is off-limits. He can only meet during the work day, which is highly difficult since my work day involves running around and responding to unpredictability.

I managed to carve out some time for last Friday at noon and demanded a hotel. He liked that I was direct and obstinate. None of the hotels around us could guarantee a room unless we showed up day of. We never met up on Friday and I assumed we weren't going to work out... so I tried a new website...

On being a sugar baby

I met Louis Vuitton in college, and I've never lusted after anything less since. Unfortunately, convincing my parents to spend hundreds of dollars on material things has since been next to impossible. So I did what any person who wanted a big purchase would do.

I got a job.

I made money. I spent money. I made more money. I spent more money.

The problem was that I never made enough to money to spend the amount of money necessary to have Louis with me all the time, so I had to put him on hold.

After college, I posted my very first w4m ad on craigslist. The response was overwhelming and unexpected. I think I went on close to 20 dates just from that one post. It was electrifying... and cost effective since I never paid. I kept posting and responding to posts, reaping the rewards.

I got serious with some of the men, and I couldn't believe how much they loved to spoil me. The relationships soon fizzled though, as I could never return the feelings they wanted. I didn't love them.

I loved Louis Vuitton.

And so I decided I wanted to be a sugar baby. It seemed quite simple. The man buys me things, and I put out. Is it really all that different from sex on the first date after he buys dinner?

I don't think so.