So I met daddymac at the Four Seasons. He looked like his pictures, acceptable to f*ck for sugar. I must say in person that he was dissapointing. The charisma from his emails and phone chat was absent.
I think the night really went sour close to the beginning when he told me about his past arrangement right off the bat. It wasn't a sugar relationship at all. He got involved with an intern at work and occasionally bought her things. They had a "fantastic 9 months together", but he didn't want to get married since he already had a wife at home.
That's all fine and dandy, I don't want to get married either. But I was getting the impression that he still wanted some form of "relationship" that didn't involve supporting my luxuries. In fact, he point blank said he hated that when I asked him about his wife.
His wife basically lives the life of a sugar baby. She puts out when he wants, and spends money to her heart's content... and he HATES that.
Now why would someone be on a website for a sugar daddy-baby relationship and hate supporting the luxuries that the baby desires. That's the whole freaking point!!
We didn't chat for long. I knew we didn't click, but he left it up to me to decide. So I did what any sugar baby in my position would do. I made a proposition that he could absolutely refuse, and in the off-chance he would take it... well then, he's a sugar daddy.
"I have basic needs such as food and shelter just like anyone else.
I love to work out, but I'm losing motivation. This can be fixed with a trainer.
I love designer labels for clothing and accessories.
When I look good I feel good.
When I look good, you look good.
If you are willing to support the aforementioned with $5000 monthly plus some should something ever come up, we can settle that topic and plan our next get-together so we can get to know each other better as people and lovers."
daddymac did not appreciate my proposal. I think he should switch his profile from seeking arrangement to seeking a pseudo-girlfriend who might actually like him for something other than money.
I mean come on. Don't flaunt your money and advertise funding only to tell me that your wife living an indulgent lifestyle pisses you off and you want someone for a deep connection.
Wrong site buddy. Wrong freakin site. I want your money and so does every other sugar baby.